Thanksgiving Thoughts

Since it's almost that time of year here in Canada, I have a Thanksgiving related query. Why do so many women treat it like a competition, and get obsessive about the meal, the decorations while completely forgetting it's about thankfulness, including family?

I am NOT referring to the women who can effortless turn out a beautiful home and meal while juggling other responsibilities, I'm referring to the women who go around in a panic, feeling like they must spend tons of money, time and cause a feeling of dread and dismay in the rest of the family.

To me it shouldn't be about wearing yourself out and being frazzled or fretful. It should be about feeling relaxed, confident, doing what you are capable of doing and taking pleasure in it while your family is grateful for your efforts. I spent some time observing the women who do have the five course meals and the well decorated houses.  They seemed at ease with what they are doing.  They had a timetable with some flexibility.  They explored recipes and chose ones that were within their budget and talents.  They became my inspiration for how to do a Thanksgiving Dinner that makes my family comfortable.  I also knew of women who for whatever reason didn't have much money, only the desire and held their heads high as they served a simple meal.  My Thanksgiving Dinner is never too elaborate. Everything I cook or bake, is within my capabilities and budget. I plan it well, remembering to do all things with a cheerful heart to ensure that I have a smile of joy, not relief, as I sit down at the table.

Blessings to the women who will be going to the store to buy some sliced turkey, buns and a pumpkin pie with a cheerful heart.  Blessings to the women who do the five course meal and the well decorated house.  I thank you for being a role model to me and helping me set realistic goals for my household.  Here's hoping this year's experiment of homemade pumpkin goes better then last year's experiement of homemade cranberry sauce.